“The most courageous act is still to think for yourself. Aloud.” Coco Chanel
As I sit here on the day before Independence Day, I have been reflecting on my journey and what freedom looks like and feels like for me. You see, we all have different ways we define independence and freedom. And for me, it comes back to empowerment.
Now, lets first begin with the textbook definition of independence: according to Merriam Webster it means… “freedom from outside control or support : the state of being independent”
Here’s the thing. If we are in business, we thrive on “outside control or support” so are we really independent? I say kinda, but not really.
I say we are more interdependent. As we need each other. As opposed to dependent, like, I cannot exist without you.
OK, so I’m getting a little deep into semantics, so lets go back to empowerment.
Empowerment to me means…
Thinking for ourselves
Finding our voice
Wisdom to make decisions that feel good
Courage to set healthy boundaries
Confidence in knowing what is good for us
Embracing our whole, imperfections and all
Owning our story and being proud of it
Self awareness and all that comes with it
Lighting the path for others
Being strong enough to ask for help
Standing up for what we believe in
Challenging the status quo
Not living by society’s standards
Taking the road less traveled
Owning our choices
And I could go on and on. So on this Independence Day, I sit in gratitude for the choices I have made, all the good ones, and all the not so good ones, knowing that I am the creator of my journey and because of all those decisions I have the honor of helping pave the way for the people I love. That is true independence to me.
What does independence mean to you? Create some space today and reflect.
Love + Awesomeness-
Nina